| Subtle Energy and Relationships-Jeri Ferrell Each and everyday we are affected by the energy of the individuals that we meet, greet and interact with on a moment to moment basis. We tend to negate the feelings that we pick up ...thinking that “it must be me”. “I feel this way but I don’t know why”. Could it possibly be them? More often than not you are picking up what is left unresolved in the auric field layers of another. This is how friction starts. Two people rub the wrong way...they might not have ever spoken but they do know they do not like each other. What is it about the other person that “feels” offensive? It’s all in the subtle energy exchange. This gets a little tricky when the unresolved energy that is felt is with someone that we are in direct relationship with. Things tend to be a little bit more cut and dry. “I do not like the way they feel”. “Why don’t they ever change”? “They need to be more conscious”. There is a tendency to blame because the other person’s energy doesn’t feel good to us. It makes us feel angry, upset, or uncomfortable in some way or another. Your job really is to decipher what it is that is affecting you and making you uncomfortable. Next is to be accountable for how your energy is intercepting, interpreting, interacting and some times reacting to the other person’s energy...not to change the other person in any way. If they feel violating to you then there must be some energetic reminder of a past event or circumstance that had brought you harm in some way or another. This does not mean that the person that you are interacting with is a violator. That remains to be seen. Once the veil or shades of truth have been lifted it will be easily recognized if this is indeed the case or not. So how do I lift this veil or shade of truth? In each interaction with another one must realize that there is an unlimited amount of view points. Which is reality? To each its own. Our own truths and reality are based in fact by our past experiences. From this point...everything gets a little shaded. It would be good to always know that you are looking through shades. Know that this is a perception but the view may look much different from another direction. This will assist you in being able to be less judgmental and subjective and more objective by nature. Know this to be true! The key is to be “energy cohesive”. For confrontation not to exist the energies must blend nicely together. This does not mean to share the auric field of another...we must always maintain energetic autonomy. What it does mean however is that the energetic rule of force meets force is identified and worked with in a compassionate light. Through this way of existing everything will smoothed over energy wise. Know this to be true! |